Funda malunga nokuchazwa kokungabikho kokusesikweni ephupheni kunye nokuchazwa kwephupha malunga nokugxothwa ngokungekho sikweni emsebenzini ngu-Ibn Sirin.

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Ukutolikwa kobugwenxa ephupheni, Ukungabikho kokusesikweni luhlobo oluthile lokungcungcuthekiswa nokucinezelwa kwabantu, kwaye intswela-bulungisa ikwayindlela yokuhluthwa kwamalungelo kunye nokunyeliswa kobuxoki.Kuye kwabakho iintetho ezininzi ngayo, yaye iitoliko zahlukahlukene ekufumaniseni intsingiselo nokubaluleka kwayo. Abanye babo bavumelana ngokuthiya okungekho sikweni ephupheni, ngoxa abanye wayekholiswa nguye phantsi kweemeko ezithile nakweminye imibandela.

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Ukutolikwa kobugqwetha ephupheni

Ukutolikwa kobugqwetha ephupheni

  • Umbono wokungabikho kokusesikweni ubonisa imeko yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo zomntu, ukuguquguquka kunye neemeko ezinzima ahlangabezana nazo ebomini bakhe, ukuphoxeka kunye nokusilela okubuhlungu okuhlala kuhamba naye, kunye noxinzelelo kunye nezithintelo ezininzi ezithintela ukuba afezekise iinjongo zakhe kwaye iminqweno.
  • Ukutolikwa kwentlebendwane ephupheni: Nabani na obona umntu emnyelisa, oku kubonisa uloyiso olukhulu, ukuzuza uloyiso, ukoyisa lowo wayemhleba, kufutshane nesiqabu, ukubuyisela amalungelo acinezelekileyo, ukunyamalala kobunzima nobunzima, ukuhlangabezana neemfuno, nokufikelela usukelo.
  • Nabani na obonayo ukuba uphathwa ngokungekho sikweni, oku kubonisa ukuphazamiseka, ukuthandabuza, neendlela ezimxinwa, ukulandelelana kwamaxhala neentsizi entliziyweni yakhe, ukuntsonkotha nokuntsonkotha kweengcinga, etyhutyha iingxaki ezityumzayo eziya kumka ekuhambeni kwexesha, nosindiso. ekubandezelekeni nasekubuyiseleni izinto ngokwemvelo yazo.
  • Ngokwembono yengqondo, imvakalelo yokungabikho kokusesikweni ephupheni inokuba yimbonakaliso yokuvezwa kokungekho sikweni ekuvukeni kobomi, ukuhamba ngamaxesha amnyama akhathaza umntu, athabathe elinye lamalungelo akhe kwaye azame ukulibuyisela, kwaye angene kwiingxabano. kunye neengxabano ezingapheliyo.

Ukutolikwa kobugqwetha ephupheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

  • U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuba ukungabi nabulungisa kuthetha ukoyisa umcinezeli kunye nokuphinda ufumane amalungelo kuye, ukuphumelela uloyiso phezu kotshaba, ukuvela kweenyani kunye nokutyhilwa kweemfihlelo, ukuphela koxinzelelo kunye nokunyamalala kwembandezelo, ukuphuculwa kweemeko zokuphila, kunye nokubuya. izinto ngendlela yazo eqhelekileyo.
  • Nabani na obonayo ukuba uphethwe kakubi ephupheni lakhe, ngoko ke imbandezelo ifike kuye efuna indumiso nokwaneliseka, ukusondela kokukhululeka kunye nembuyekezo enkulu, ukuphumeza ubulungisa kunye nokuthatha okulungileyo, ukuhlangabezana neemfuno kunye nokuphumeza iinjongo, ukucacisa oko kwakungaziwa; ukususa ukungaqondani kunye nokudideka, kunye nokuzuza impumelelo kunye nenhlanhla enkulu.
  • Ngokuphathelele lowo ubona umntu ongenabulungisa, esi sisilumkiso kunye nesaziso seentlekele, amatyala, kunye noxinzelelo lwemali, ukusindiswa kwiingozi kunye nobubi, ukuphepha ukukrokrela kunye nezilingo eziqhubekayo, kunye nokukhuselwa kwingozi ephantse yambulala kwaye yachaphazela kakubi impilo yakhe. uzinzo kunye neemeko.
  • Xa athe wangqina ukuba ucinezelwe aze abize kuThixo, oku kubonisa ukuba umthandazo uya kuphendulwa, ukuba uya kuyifumana into ayifunayo, aphakame ngesikhundla nodumo, aphinde akuzuze oko anako, inguquko. nesikhokelo, ukuze izikali zibuyele kokulungileyo nobulungisa kuye, asuke amaxhala nemithwalo emagxeni akhe.

Ukutolikwa kokungabikho kokusesikweni ephupheni ngokutsho kwe-Al-Nabulsi

  • U-Al-Nabulsi uthi ukungabikho kokusesikweni kuchazwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo.Nabani na obona ukuba uphathwa ngokungekho sikweni, oku kubonisa ukukhululeka kwentlungu kunye nexhala, ukunyamalala kwentlungu kunye nosizi, ukuguquka kweemeko zehlabathi kunye nobuninzi behlabathi. isondlo kunye neentsikelelo, inkathalo nenkxaso kaThixo, ulonwabo kunye neendaba ezimnandi.
  • Ukungabikho kokusesikweni ngokukhala kuchazwa njengovuyo, imbuyekezo enkulu, isiqabu esikufutshane, ukususwa kwemiqobo endleleni, ukutyhilwa koko kufihliweyo, ukuza kwesohlwayo kumcinezeli, kunye nesiphelo sakhe esibi.
  • Nabani na obonayo ukuba ulwa nabo bamonileyo, oku kubonisa ulonwabo, intabalala, uloyiso, ithamsanqa elikhulu, usindiso kwabo bamhluthileyo amalungelo akhe, ukubuyiselwa kozuko newonga lakhe, nokuvula iingcango zokuphila.
  • Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo mbono ugqalwa njengomqondiso wokuphela kwamanqanaba athile, nokufika kwamanye amanqanaba ezisa iindaba ezilungileyo, iziganeko nemivuyo, ukulandelelana kovuyo lwentliziyo nokusasazwa kweentsikelelo.

Ukutolikwa kokungabikho kokusesikweni ephupheni ngu-Ibn Shaheen

  • U-Ibn Shaheen uhlabela mgama esithi intswela-bulungisa izenzela yona.Nabani na obona intswela-bulungisa icinezelwe, amalungelo akhe ahluthwa, isidima sakhe sijongelwe phantsi, nesidima sakhe sijongelwa phantsi.Uxinzelelo oluphezu kwakhe luye lwaba qatha ngakumbi, iimeko zakhe azizange ziphumelele. kwaye umphefumlo wakhe utshintshile, neendlela zakhe zimxinwa kwaye ziphelile.
  • Ukuba uyabona ukuba uyazamazamana nomcinezeli, oku kubonisa ukuphumelela kwakhe, ukubhenca intswela-bulungisa yakhe ebantwini, ukufumana amalungelo nemali yakhe, nokusinda kwiingozi zendlela, intlebendwane zikaSathana, nobubi bomphefumlo. .
  • Kodwa ukuba umphuphi ucinezela abanye, oku kubonisa ukuhlutha amalungelo abanye, ukutya imali yeenkedama, inkani kunye nenkani kwimbono, ukulandela iindlela ezikrokrelayo, kunye nenkohlakalo kunye nokungqongqo kwimicimbi yemihla ngemihla.
  • Ukuzisola ngokungekho sikweni kuyimbonakaliso yokuvuka kwimililo yokungakhathali, ukuvuka kwikoma, inguquko kwizono nezenzo ezibi, ukhokelo nokubuyela kuThixo, nokukhunga nokufuna ukuxolelwa ukuze inceba yobuthixo iqukwe kuye.

Ukutolikwa kobugqwetha ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga

  • Lo mbono ufuzisela ukuzulazula, iintsilelo, iintsilelo kunye neziphene kubuntu bakhe, ukungabi nangqondo, iimpazamo eziphantsi kunye nokuzisola, ukuziphatha kakubi kwiingxaki zangoku, kunye novavanyo olungalunganga lweziganeko.
  • Ukuba uyabona ukuba woniwe, oku kubonisa ukuba uyakuthanda ukudlala indima yexhoba, eshenxisela amaxhala nemithwalo yakhe kwabanye, etyhola abanye ngokungakhathali, yaye ekuphepha ukuzibeka ityala.
  • Noko ke, ukuba ubhencwa ngokunyanisekileyo nangokunyaniseka kokungekho sikweni, oku kubonisa isiqabu esikufuphi nembuyekezo enkulu, ukungabikho kokungaqondani, izibakala zicaca, nendlela yokuphuma ebunzimeni nakwinkxwaleko.
  • Ukuba uyabacinezela abanye, esi sisilumkiso sokuphepha ukurhanelwa, ukuzikhwebula kwizilingo neengxwabangxwaba eziqhubekayo, uguquke uze ufune ulwalathiso, uhlolisise iziphene kubuntu bakhe, uze uphephe ukwenza izigqibo eziphosakeleyo ezenzakalisa yena nentsapho yakhe.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokungabi nabulungisa kunye nokukhala kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga

  • Ukubona ukungabikho kokusesikweni kunye nokukhala kuvakalisa ukuhlaziywa kwamathemba aphelileyo, ukususwa kokuphelelwa lithemba entliziyweni, ukukhululeka kwamaxhala kunye nokukhathazeka, ukunyamalala kwenkxwaleko kunye nokuphuculwa kweemeko zokuphila.
  • U-Al-Nabulsi ukholelwa ukuba ukukhala okulandela ukungabikho kokusesikweni kubonisa ukusindiswa kwiinkxwaleko nakwiingxaki, ukuvela kwiingxaki, ulonwabo kunye neentsikelelo ezininzi, ubomi obude, amandla kunye nokuphila kakuhle.
  • Kodwa ukuba esi sikhalo sikhatshwa kuhlobo oluthile lwempama, isijwili, nokukrazulwa kwempahla, oko kuphosakele yaye akukho nto ilungileyo kuko.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhusela umntu ocinezelweyo kumfazi ongatshatanga

  • Lo mbono ubonisa ukoyisa umcinezeli nokoyisa kwakhe, enikela uncedo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, angathuli xa ejamelene nobuxoki, afumane isixhaso esisemthethweni, noxolelwaniso nesigwebo esilungileyo.
  • Lo mbono usenokuba yimbonakaliso yokubandakanyeka kumsebenzi wobugqwetha, ukugxotha abahlaseli nabantu abonakeleyo, ukuma endleleni yabo nokuvala iindlela zabo, nokubambelela enyanisweni nokukhusela abantu bayo.
  • Umbono wokukhusela umntu ocinezelweyo ugqalwa njengobungqina bokulunga, intsikelelo, ulwalathiso lobuthixo, ukukhuselwa ebubini nakwiingozi, iimeko eziguqukayo, ukufikelela usukelo, nokuhlangabezana neemfuno.
  • Kwelinye icala, ukukhusela umntu ocinezelweyo kusenokuba kuzithethelela, njengoko esenokuba ukwimeko yokutyholwa ngabanye.

Ukutolikwa kobugwenxa ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo

  • Lo mbono ubonisa ukuxhalaba okugqithisileyo, iintsizi ezinde, uxanduva olukhulu, imithwalo enzima, kunye nemisebenzi owabelwe yona, kwaye ufumanisa kunzima ukuyigqiba ngendlela efanelekileyo, kunye noloyiko olukujikelezayo malunga nengomso.
  • Ukuba uphathwa ngokungekho sikweni ngumyeni wakhe, oku kubonisa ukuphathwa kakubi, ukungena kwiingxabano kunye nosapho lomyeni, ukulahlekelwa yimeko, ukuhluthwa kwamalungelo, kunye noloyiko lwengcamango yoqhawulo-mtshato, ukwahlukana kokuhlanganiswa kunye nokuguquguquka kwemeko. .
  • Noko ke, ukuba uyabona ukuba ukhalela ngenxa yokungekho sikweni, oku kubonisa isiqabu esikufuphi, ukusindiswa ekubandezelekeni, ukuvuselelwa kwamathemba, ukuphela kokuphelelwa lithemba nosizi, imbuyiselo eyintabalala nokulunga, ukubuyiselwa kwamalungelo nokuphela kweentlekele.
  • Kodwa ukuba ubona ukuba akanabulungisa, oku kubonisa iinjongo ezikhohlakeleyo, ukugweba kunye nokulawula kakubi, ukungahoywa kwamalungelo endlu yakhe, ukuhluthwa kwendoda yakhe, isimilo esibi kunye nesimilo, kunye nokulandela iminqweno, inkohliso, nobuxoki.

Ukutolikwa kobugqwetha ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo

  • Ukungabikho kokusesikweni ephupheni lakhe kubonisa ukukhululeka, ukukhululeka, kunye nokususwa kwemiqobo endleleni yakhe, ukufikelela usukelo, ukufikelela usukelo, ukuhlangabezana neemfuno, ukuvula iingcango zokuphila, ukonwabela iintsikelelo nezipho.
  • Ukuba uyabona ukuba uphathwa ngokungekho sikweni, oku kubonisa umhla osondelayo wokuzalwa kwakhe, uloyiko oluninzi olumngqongileyo, kunye neenkxalabo ezingokwengqondo eziphazamisa intliziyo yakhe, kunye nokufika kwakhe kwindawo ekhuselekileyo.
  • Lo mbono uthathwa njengobonisa izigaba zokukhulelwa ohamba nazo, eziya kugqiba ngendlela engcono kakhulu, ngokufika komntwana ngaphandle kokugula okanye iingxaki, kunye nokuphela kweengxabano ezikhoyo.

Ukutolikwa kobugqwetha ephupheni kumfazi oqhawule umtshato

  • Ukungabikho kobulungisa ephupheni lakhe kuhambelana neemeko zakhe kunye nobomi bakhe kunye nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili, amalungelo alahlekileyo kunye neengxabano eziqhubekayo ezingekapheli, kunye nomnqweno wokubalekela kwizinto eziphazamisayo kunye nokuphazamisa iphupha lakhe.
  • Ukuba uyabona ukuba uphantsi kokungekho sikweni, oku kubonisa amaxesha anzima obomi bakhe apho ubomi buye baba nzima kuye, kunye nomthwalo wenkxalabo kunye nokukhathazeka, kunye notshintsho olusondeleyo nolungalindelekanga kunye nesiqabu esikhulu.
  • Ukuba liyabona ukuba lilwa nokungekho sikweni kwalo, oku kubonisa ukuba liya kuphumelela kulo, likhuselwe ebubini balo, libaleke kwiingozi, liyilahle imiqobo emthintelayo.

Ukutolikwa kobugqwetha ephupheni kumntu

  • Lo mbono ephupheni lakhe ubonisa ubuzwilakhe, ukusasazeka korhwaphilizo kunye nengcinezelo, ukubamba amandla kunye namathuba, ukuhlala kude nenyaniso nokulandela izilingo, kunye nokunyamalala kweentsikelelo kunye nezinto ezilungileyo.
  • Nabani na obonayo ukuba uphathwa ngokungekho sikweni, oku kubonisa ukuntywiliselwa kwiinkxalabo zehlabathi, umsebenzi oqhubekayo wokubuyisela amalungelo abiweyo, kunye nesiqabu kunxunguphalo namaxhala kwixesha elizayo elingekude.
  • Ngokubhekiselele ekukhaleni kabukhali xa kuboniswa intswela-bulungisa, esi sisalathiso esihle kwaye sivakalisa ukuba imeko yangoku iya kuphucuka, iimeko ziya kutshintsha zibe ngcono, usindiso kukubandezeleka nobunzima, nokwandiswa kwenkxaso nentsikelelo.

Ukubona umntu ocinezelweyo ephupheni

  • Lo mbono unxulumene nobungakanani bolwazi lwakho ngalomntu, ukuba akaziwa, oku kubonisa imfuneko yokulumkela abacinezeli nabakhohlakeleyo, ukuphepha ukukrokrelana nezilingo, ukuzikhwebula kwiingxwabangxwaba eziqhubekayo, cela uxolo kwaye uthandaze rhoqo, kwaye Hambani ngomendo othe tye, nizinzise ekuhambeni.
  • Nabani na ombonayo umntu ocinezelweyo, abe emazi, loo nto ibonakalisa ukuba kufuneka uziphonononge kwaye ucinge ngokutsha ngobudlelwane bakho naye, njengoko usenokuba nentswela-bulungisa kuye ungamazi okanye unyelise elinye lamalungelo akhe ngenxa yokungazi.
  • Kwelinye icala, ukubona umntu ocinezelweyo kubonisa ukubaluleka kokumnceda kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukumkhusela nokumxhasa. nokubakhalimela abacinezelweyo.

Ukuziva ucinezelekile ephupheni

  • Ukususela kumbono wengqondo, ukuvakalelwa kwengcinezelo luphawu lwemeko embi yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo, iimeko ezibuhlungu zobomi kunye nokuguquguquka, ukwesaba kwikamva kunye nezisongelo ezinokubakho, kunye nokujongana neziganeko ezinokuzisa umonakalo kumntu ohlangabezana nazo.
  • Ngokwembono yomthetho, ukuziva ucinezelekile ephupheni kuthetha ukukhululeka okusondelayo, imbuyekezo enkulu, ukutya okuninzi kunye nokulunga, umvuzo womonde nokuzama, ukuphepha ukukrokrelana, ukuphepha ukungavisisani kunye neengxabano kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kunye nokubambelela ngokuqinileyo kuThixo nokuthembela kuYe.
  • Ukuba umntu uziva ecinezelwe ngenxa yokungekho sikweni, oku kufanekisela usindiso kwiinkxwaleko, ukunyamalala kwenkxwaleko nenkxwaleko, ukuphucuka ngokuthe ngcembe kweemeko, ukubuya kwamanzi kwindlela yawo yendalo, ukuhlaziywa kwamathemba entliziyweni, nokususwa kokuphelelwa lithemba. kwaye uphelelwe lithemba kuyo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokungabi nabulungisa kukamama kum

  • Ukubonakaliswa kokungekho sikweni kwicala lomama kuchazwa njengothando kuye, ukunamathela kuye, izibophelelo zobudlelwane kunye nobulungisa, ukufumana imiyalelo yakhe ngokuthobela okukhulu, kunye nomnqweno wokumenza ajabule kuzo zonke iindlela.
  • Kwelinye icala, lo mbono ugqalwa njengokuzithetha nokuhlebeza kukaSathana, nomnyango weyantlukwano noqhekeko, ukwagqalwa njengesilumkiso nesilumkiso nxamnye nokuwela kwizikrokro nezilingo, nemfuneko yokuzikhwebula. iingcango zongquzulwano kunye nokuqhekeka.
  • Nabani na obona ukungabikho kokusesikweni kumama wakhe, oku kuxhomekeke kwimeko yakhe kunye nobudlelwane bakhe kunye naye.Ukuba kukho ukungavumelani, oku kubonisa ukulandelelana kweengxaki, ukujongana neengxoxo eziphikisanayo, ukungalandeli izigqibo zakhe, kunye nokuphikisana rhoqo nemiyalelo yakhe.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha ngomntu ondenze kakubi ndicela uxolo

  • Lo mbono unxibelelene nendlela osabela ngayo ekuceleni uxolo, ukuba loo mntu ukonile, uze umxolele, oku kubonisa ukuphela kweengxabano ekuvukeni kobomi, ukubuyisela izinto kwimeko yazo yesiqhelo, ukuvuthwa, ukuchuma kokucinga, okulungileyo. izenzo, noxolelo oluhle.
  • Kodwa ukuba uyala ukumxolela, oku kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yentswela-bulungisa enkulu eyehlela lowo uphuphayo, ukungakwazi kwakhe ukukuxolela, ukwanda kweengxabano neengxabano ezijamelene naye, ukutyhubela amaxesha amanqam aphela kakuhle, kwanobukho bexesha elinzima. ubudlelwane obunokubakho obunokunceda ukuphucula ulwalamano lwakhe nabanye.
  • Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo mbono uthathwa njengophawu lothando olunzulu kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo, ukuzama ukufikelela kwizisombululo ezilungileyo zokuphelisa imiba ebalaseleyo, ukulandela ingqiqo, kunye nokukhokelwa ngabantu abalungileyo kwizenzo zabo kunye namazwi.

Iimpawu zokunqoba umcinezeli ephupheni

Phakathi kweempawu zoloyiso kumcinezeli ephupheni zezi zilandelayo:

  • Ukubona umcinezeli engakwazi ukushukuma, ukuthetha, ukujonga kuwe, okanye ukutya, konke kubonisa ukoyiswa kwakhe, ukutyhila imfihlo yakhe, ukwenza ubunyani bakhe bucace, kwaye uphumelele ukunqoba kwakhe.
  • Xa uzibona ukhwele ihashe, ulikhwele, kwaye ukwazi ukulilawula, oku kuthathwa njengophawu lodumo, ukhuselo, kunye nobuchule bokulwa amadabi, uphumelele uloyiso, kwaye uwabuyise amalungelo akho kwabo bakonileyo kwaye batshabalalisa amaphupha.
  • Kwakhona, xa ubona uhlaselo lwezilwanyana ezizingelayo, uzibulala, okanye uzibophelele ngokuqinileyo, oku kubonisa ukoyisa umcinezeli, ukumshenxisa, nokusaba ebubini nakwiingozi zakhe.
  • Ukubona ubulungisa kwinkundla yabagwebi okanye ukubona umgwebi osesikweni kungumfuziselo okwavakalisa ukubuyiselwa kwamalungelo abiweyo, ukutyhila inyaniso ngomcinezeli, nempindezelo ngenxa yezenzo zakhe ezingendawo.
  • Okokugqibela, ukubona iinqaba ezinqatyisiweyo, amabhotwe amakhulu, okanye iindonga eziphakamileyo kuyimbonakaliso yokujongela phantsi abacinezeli, ukuzisindisa kububi babo, nokufuna ukukhuselwa yiNkosi, ukungakhuseleki, nolungiselelo lobuthixo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokungabi nabulungisa kwizihlobo

  • Lo mbono uthathwa njengophawu loxinzelelo kubudlelwane bomphuphi kunye nezalamane zakhe, ukungaboni ngasonye rhoqo phakathi kwabo, ukuthetha ngomcimbi ophakamisa ingxabano kunye neengxabano, kunye nokubandakanyeka kwiingxabano ezingenamsebenzi.
  • Ukuba ibona ukungabikho kokusesikweni kwizalamane zayo, oku kusenokuba luphawu lwengxabano ngelifa okanye umyolelo oshiywe ngasemva, iindlela ezininzi zokungavisisani phakathi kwazo, nokungabikho kwesivumelwano ngombono omanyeneyo okanye isisombululo esikhethekileyo sokufumana. ngaphandle kweengxaki ezikhoyo.
  • Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lo mbono uthathwa njengembonakaliso yeengxaki eziye zenzeka kutshanje ukuba umphuphi akakwazi ukukrazula okanye ukunqoba, kunye nokuvezwa kwezithuko angakwazi ukuxolela.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokugxothwa ngokungafanelekanga kwendoda

Indoda xa izibona igxothwa ngokungekho sikweni ephupheni itolikwa njengesiphumo soxinzelelo neengxaki ajongene nazo kubomi bakhe bangoku, ezama ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ukoyisa. Iphupha lokugxothwa emsebenzini libhekwa njengento ebonisa ukuba kukho iingxaki ezininzi kunye neenkxalabo ebomini bomntu onoburhalarhume ngombono. Ukuba indoda iyarhoxa emsebenzini, ingcaciso yeyokuba igqibe kwelokuba izilahle uxanduva nengcinezelo egqithiseleyo ehambisana nomsebenzi. Kwelinye icala, ukuba indoda iyagxothwa emsebenzini wayo ephupheni, loo nto ibonisa ukuziphatha okubi nezenzo ezingamkelekanga. Ngoxa ukugxothwa ngokungekho ngqiqweni emsebenzini ephupheni kugqalwa njengophawu lokubhencwa kokungekho sikweni nentshutshiso.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokugxothwa ngokungekho sikweni emsebenzini

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokugxothwa ngokungekho sikweni emsebenzini kubonisa ukubandezeleka kunye nobunzima obuthile ajongene nabo ebomini bakhe bobugcisa. Eli phupha lidla ngokuba ngumqondiso wokudakumba nokuphelelwa lithemba okuviwa ngumntu obalisa iphupha. Ukugxothwa emsebenzini ngokungekho sikweni kusenokuthetha ukuba ubani uneziphene ngokuziphatha nangendlela yokuziphatha, njengokutyhila iimfihlelo, ukuhleba, ukuhleba nokunganyaniseki. Kwakhona kusenokuthetha ukuba umntu uthwele uxanduva oluninzi kwaye ujongene neengxaki ezininzi. Umntu obalisa iphupha uyacetyiswa ukuba abe nomonde xa ejamelene nesilingo aze asondele kuThixo ngokukhunga nangokukhala.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokungena entolongweni ngokungekho sikweni kunye nokukhala kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuya entolongweni ngokungekho sikweni kunye nokukhalela umfazi ongatshatanga kubonisa iimvakalelo ezicinezelekileyo kunye nokunyanzeliswa kweemvakalelo. Intolongo kweli phupha idla ngokutolikwa njengentolongo yengqondo emele umqobo wengqondo ozaliswe luloyiko lomntu ophuphayo kunye nokukhathazeka. Ibonakalisa ukubandezeleka ngokwasengqondweni kunye nesiphithiphithi esifunyanwa ngabasetyhini abangatshatanga ngoku. Ke ngoko, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ufune uncedo oluyimfuneko kunye nengqalelo yokukhulula uxinzelelo lwengqondo olufumanayo.

Ngokuphathelele ukukhala okukhulu kweli phupha, kukholelwa ukuba kusenokuba ngumphumo wokudinwa ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokudinwa ukuba umphuphi uyabandezeleka. Oku kusenokuba kungenxa yoxinezeleko lwengqondo aluthweleyo olumqobayo ngokweemvakalelo.

Ngokuphathelele ukutolikwa kwentolongo kweli phupha kumfazi ongatshatanga, kunokuba luphawu lokusondela komtshato wakhe kunye nokuqala kobomi obabelwanayo kwisidleke somtshato. Le ngcaciso isenokuba luphawu lwekamva elonwabisayo nelanelisekileyo kungekudala.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ondenze kakubi ucela ukuxolelwa ngomfazi ongatshatanga

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ondiphethe kakubi ecela ukuxolelwa ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga unokuthwala iintsingiselo ezintle kunye neziphumo ezivuyisayo ebomini bakhe obulandelayo. Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona ephupheni lakhe umntu omaziyo ukuba amcele ukuba axolelwe, oku kubonisa umnqweno walo mntu ukusondela kuye kwaye amgwebe. Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso wezinto ezilungileyo ezenzekayo kubudlelwane babo okanye ithuba lonxibelelwano olungcono kunye nokuqonda.

Ukongeza, eli phupha linokuthetha ukuba izinto ezintle nezivuyisayo ziya kwenzeka kubomi bomphuphi ngexesha elizayo. Ukucela ukuxolelwa ephupheni kunokukhatshwa ziindaba ezininzi ezintle eziya kuzisa inkanuko kunye nolonwabo entliziyweni yakhe, kwaye ezi ndaba zinokunxulunyaniswa nokuphumeza iinjongo zakhe kunye nokoyisa imiqobo ebimthintela.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba kukho iingxabano ezingasonjululwanga phakathi kwentombazana engatshatanga kunye nomntu omonileyo. Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lwesidingo sokujongana nale ngxabano kwaye ufumane izisombululo kubo, ukuze kuzuze uxolo lwangaphakathi kunye nokulinganisela ebomini bakhe.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha elityholwa ngobusela ngokungekho sikweni kwabatshatileyo

Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nomfazi otshatileyo otyholwa ngokungekho sikweni ngokuba kubonisa ukuba unokujongana neengxaki zomtshato kwixesha elizayo. Eli phupha lingabonisa ukuphazamiseka kubudlelwane bakhe bomtshato okanye ingxabano kumaxabiso kunye nezinto anomdla kuzo phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe. Kusenokubakho nemvakalelo yoxinzelelo kunye nokungathembani phakathi kwabo. Nangona kunjalo, eli phupha likwasisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka konxibelelwano oluhle kunye nokungafihlisi kulwalamano lomtshato ukoyisa iingxaki, ukwakha ukuqondana okungcono, nokomeleza iqhina labo. Iphupha likwabonisa ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uya kukwazi ukunqoba ezi ngxaki ngamandla kunye nokuzithemba. Oku kusenokufuna ukuyihlolisisa ngokunyanisekileyo imeko, kwamkele isimo sengqondo esitsha, nokwenza iinguqulelo eziyimfuneko kulwalamano. Eli phupha likhumbuza umfazi otshatileyo ukuba kufuneka athathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo okugcina ulonwabo lomtshato wakhe kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye nozinzo kunye nomyeni wakhe.

Ukubona umcinezeli ephupheni kwaye uthetha naye

Ukubona umcinezeli ephupheni kunye nokuthetha naye luphawu olunamandla kakhulu lokoyisa umcinezeli. Ukuba umntu ubona umcinezeli ephupheni lakhe kwaye uthetha naye ephupheni, oku kubonisa iimvakalelo ezimbi ukuba umphuphi anayo kumntu oye wamona ngaphambili. Kukho ezinye iinguqulelo ezibonisa ukuba eli phupha lingabonisa uloyiso locinezelweyo kumcinezeli, ngakumbi ukuba lowo ucinezelweyo wayethandazela umcinezeli ephupheni, kodwa uThixo usazi kakuhle. Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho ukutolika okubonisa ukuba umcinezeli unokutshintsha kwaye ahoxise ukungabi nabulungisa kwakhe, kodwa xa kwenzeka ukuba umbusi ongekho sikweni ubonwa ngokubambisana ngobubele kunye nokuphathwa kakuhle ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuba umphuphi uya kubonakaliswa ekukhohliseni kwaye inkohliso kwixesha elizayo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha lokungabi nabulungisa kwizalamane zabasetyhini abangatshatanga

Ukothuka nokuphoxeka kusenokufikela intombazana engatshatanga xa ibona okungekho sikweni kwizalamane zayo ephupheni. Eli phupha liphethe iintsingiselo ezinamandla ezibonisa ukuxhatshazwa kubudlelwane phakathi kwentombazana kunye namalungu entsapho yakhe. Isenokubonisa ukuba kukho iingxabano neengxabano phakathi kwakhe nezalamane zakhe. Nangona kunjalo, eli phupha linika ithemba lokuba intombazana iya kukwazi ukunqoba zonke iintshaba zayo kwixesha elizayo kwaye iphumelele ukunqoba. UThixo uhlala esazi konke, kwaye kuye nobabalo lwaKhe kuphuma intuthuzelo namandla okoyisa inkxwaleko.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha lokungabi nabulungisa kwizihlobo zomfazi otshatileyo

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokungabi nabulungisa kwizihlobo kumfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuphazamiseka kubudlelwane bakhe bentsapho. Lo mbono usenokuba yimbonakaliso yeengxaki zomtshato ezibangelwa kukungavisisani neengxabano zentsapho. Usenokuba noloyiko neenkxalabo malunga nokuzinza kolwalamano lwakhe namalungu entsapho yakhe. Kwakhona eli phupha lisenokubonisa kuye imfuneko yokwenza ngobulumko nokuba bhetyebhetye ekuqhubaneni namalungu entsapho, nokwenza imigudu yokuphepha ukwaphula amaqhina nawo.

Ukuthatha amalungelo kumcinezeli ephupheni

Iphupha lokuthatha amalungelo kumcinezeli ephupheni ngumbono omhle kwaye uthembisayo. Eli phupha lisenokuthetha ukuba umntu oliphuphayo uya kuphumeza ubulungisa aze aloyise phezu kokungekho sikweni awayekuvezwe ngokwenyani. Luphawu oluqinileyo lokusondela kokukhululeka, ukuzaliseka kweminqweno kunye nokufezekiswa kweenjongo. Ngeli phupha, kugxininiswa ukuba inyaniso kufuneka ikhutshwe kwaye ithathwe ngamandla onke kunye nokuzimisela, nokuba kungezenzo eziphathekayo okanye ngokubongoza kunye nokufuna ukuxolelwa. Ukuthatha amalungelo kumcinezeli ephupheni bubungqina botshintsho oluhle kunye nokuguqulwa kobomi bomntu, apho amalungelo abiweyo abuyiselwe kwaye ubulungisa kunye nokulingana kufezekiswa phakathi kwabantu. Eli phupha likhulisa ukuzithemba kunye nethemba lekamva elingcono, njengoko uThixo ngobubele unika umkhonzi amalungelo akhe kwaye umnike uloyiso phezu kobumnyama.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhusela umntu ocinezelweyo

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhusela umntu ocinezelweyo ephupheni kubonisa iimpawu zokulunga kunye nobubele kumphuphi. Ukubona umntu ongatshatanga ekhusela umntu owoniweyo kubonisa iimpawu zakhe ezintle nothando lwakhe lokunceda abanye. Eli phupha lingabonisa kwakhona imfuno yentombazana yokukhusela kunye namandla ebomini bayo bemihla ngemihla. Kukho inokwenzeka ukuba iphupha libonisa ukuba intombazana ithotyelwe ukukhohliswa okanye ukungabi nabulungisa ebomini bayo bokwenene. Eli phupha lisenokuba ngumqondiso kuye wokuba uya kuba neendaba ezimnandi kwixesha elizayo elingekude. Ukongezelela, eli phupha lingabonakalisa ukulungela kwentombazana ukukhusela nokulwela amalungelo abanye. Ngokubanzi, ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhusela umntu ocinezelweyo kubonisa imilinganiselo yobulungisa kunye nobuntu kumphuphi kwaye ibonisa umnqweno wakhe wokunceda nokuxhasa abanye.

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