Ukubona indoda engaqhelekanga indileqa ephupheni
- Ukubona indoda engaqhelekanga ikusukela ngelixa uziva usoyika ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba wonke umntu ojikeleze umphuphi unomona ngento anayo kwaye unqwenela ukuba iintsikelelo zinyamalale ebomini bakhe.
- Xa umntu ebona indoda ongayaziyo ikuleqa uze umbaleke ephupheni, obu bubungqina bokuba akakhathali kwaye akawenzi kakuhle umsebenzi wakhe, kwaye kufuneka ayitshintshe loo nto.
- Ukubona indoda engaqhelekanga imleqa kwaye ifuna ukumbulala ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uya kubandakanyeka kwintlekele enkulu eya kumbhenca kwiingozi ezininzi.
- Nabani na obona indoda engaziwayo imsukela yaye imthanda ephupheni, obu bubungqina bemvakalelo yokungabi nakuzinceda ngenxa yokusilela kwayo ukwenza oko ayabelwe ukuba ikwenze.
- Nabani na obona umntu ongaziwayo ehamba emva kwakhe ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba uziva uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo ngamaxesha onke, kwaye nabani na obona umntu ongaqhelekanga emlandela ngemoto ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuncipha kokuphila kwakhe kunye nokukhathazeka. imeko yemali ngenxa yento eza kwenzeka kuye.
Ndibone umntu ophethe imela endileqa umfazi ongatshatanga
- Xa intombazana ibona umntu ephethe imela kwaye ezama ukumbamba ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba le ndoda iya kutyhila iinyaniso ezininzi kuye kungekudala.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona indoda imxosha kwaye ibambe isitshetshe esandleni sakhe ephupheni, oku kuyimpawu yengxaki yezempilo intombazana evezwe kuyo kwaye iya kuchaphazela ikhondo lobomi bakhe ixesha elithile.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona umntu angamaziyo emlandela kwaye ephethe imela esandleni sakhe, kodwa iphumelele ekuphunyukeni ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kumazi umntu kwaye angene kubudlelwane naye, kodwa kungekudala kuya kupheliswa. ngokuba akamfanelanga.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ondisukelayo efuna ukundibulala ngenxa yomfazi okhulelweyo
- Ukubukela umfazi okhulelweyo ebaleka kwindoda ezama ukumbulala ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kunqoba ubunzima obuninzi kunye neengxaki ezazikhathaza ubomi bakhe kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Xa umfazi okhulelweyo ebona umntu emleqa kwaye ezama ukumbulala ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba unengxaki yemali enokuthi ibangele iingxaki zakhe kwaye imthintele ekuthengeni iimfuno ezisisiseko zomntwana wakhe.
- Xa umfazi okhulelweyo ebona umntu emxosha ephupheni, kodwa uyacotha kwaye akakwazi ukumsusa, oku bubungqina bokukhathala kunye nobunzima obuya kuziva ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwakhe kwaye oko kuya kumenza azive ecinezelekile.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu omde ondisukelayo ngenxa yomfazi ongatshatanga
- Intombazana ebona umntu omde emleqa ephupheni ibonisa ukulunga kunye nokuphila okuninzi okuya kuba sisabelo sakhe.
- Xa intombazana ibona umntu omnyama omde emleqa ephupheni, obu bubungqina bomntu othile ebomini bakhe ozama ukumfaka engxakini ngenxa yentiyo nentiyo yakhe kuye.
- Ukubona indoda ende ephupheni lentombazana ifanekisela induduzo, ukuzola, kunye nolonwabo oluya kuhlala nalo kwiminyaka ezayo.
- Nabani na obona ephupheni lakhe indoda ende imsukela ephupheni, oku bubungqina botshintsho olonwabileyo nolukhululekile oluya kwenzeka ngokuthe ngcembe kwiimeko zakhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona umntu omde engayazi ukuba imsukela ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba kukho umntu omlaleleyo kwaye amlandele kuzo zonke iindawo ukuze akulimaze, ngoko kufuneka alumke.
- Umntu omde, obukekayo osukela intombazana ephupheni ubonisa ukuba uThixo uyikhathalele inkuselo yakhe Umbono ukwathetha ukuzingca kunye newonga eliphakamileyo aza kulifumana kungekudala kuluntu lwakhe kwaye enze wonke umntu amxabise kwaye amhloniphe.
